You’re not here by accident.
If you’ve found your way here, something in you already knows it’s time. Not in your head. In your body. In the quiet place that has been whispering for a while now, asking for a different way of living.
Not because something is wrong with you.
Because something honest is waking up.
There comes a moment when a woman realizes the life she has built no longer fits the truth she can feel inside her. She may not have language for it yet. She just knows she’s tired of holding herself together. Tired of being strong in ways that cost her too much. Tired of explaining, proving, pushing, or pretending she hasn’t outgrown what once felt safe.
What used to work starts to feel heavy.
What once made sense starts to feel hollow.
And beneath it all is a knowing she can’t shake.
This isn’t a breakdown.
It’s a remembering.
The work I do is not about fixing you, motivating you, or asking you to become someone else. I don’t believe you’re broken. I don’t believe you’re behind. I believe you’ve been carrying more than you were ever meant to carry alone.
My work is about creating the safety for truth to surface. About slowing things down enough for your nervous system to stop bracing and start trusting. About seeing the patterns that shaped you with compassion, not judgment, and choosing differently from here.
You are not here to manage your life.
You are here to live inside it. To lead it. To feel at home in yourself again.
Mentorship, in this space, is not about being told what to do. It’s about being met. Fully. Honestly. Over time. Long enough for your body to learn that it’s safe to move differently now.
When your actions begin to match your inner truth, you don’t have to force clarity. It arrives. Decisions soften. The constant self negotiation quiets. Your nervous system exhales. Life starts responding to you instead of demanding from you.
If something in you feels seen as you read this, that’s not coincidence. That’s recognition. The kind that doesn’t need words.
You’re in the right place.
I am the author of You Are The Anchor, a book born from lived experience and written for women who are done surviving and ready to live from sovereignty.
I am also the founder of Worthy Wands, a body of work that began as a personal practice and has become a tool for remembrance held by tens of thousands of women. Not as jewelry, but as anchors. Physical reminders of truth when the nervous system forgets.
Everything I offer, mentorship, writing, tools, is rooted in the same belief:
that worth is not earned, power is not forced, and change does not come from doing more.
It comes from returning to yourself, consistently, over time.
Amanda O’Reilly is a mentor devoted to helping women align their inner truth with how they live, lead, and choose.
Her work has been recognized internationally. She is a Top 40 Under 40 recipient, a Women of Distinction Award honoree, and was awarded a Medal of Honor from the City of Ottawa as a Change Maker. She was also knighted as a Dame in the Order of St George.
These recognitions reflect not a pursuit of accolades, but the impact of work rooted in integrity, embodiment, and lived truth.
I’m known as the Subconscious Surgeon. I guide women to the root of what shapes their lives and help them rewrite the story at its source. My background is in psychology, rapid resolution therapy, and neuro linguistic programming. I integrate science, intuition, nervous system intelligence, and energetic awareness into a single, embodied approach to transformation.
This work clears patterns rather than managing symptoms. It shifts identity at the level where real change becomes inevitable. Because when identity changes, everything else follows.
For women who are ready to see themselves clearly.
The patterns. The conditioning. The power they haven’t fully claimed yet.
If you know you’ve outgrown your current life and you’re ready to choose differently, this is where the work begins.
Our online offerings are currently being refined.
New courses will be released in 2026.
Until then, Instagram is the best place to stay connected to what’s unfolding.
Change doesn’t start with force.
It starts with what you anchor into daily.
Explore Worthy Wands and the ANCHOR™ Method, and choose the frequency that reflects who you are becoming.
You Are The Anchor is for the woman who knows she is done surviving her life and ready to truly inhabit it.
Not as theory.
As lived truth.
The book arrives in Spring 2026.