I wrote this course as I came face to face with the trauma I survived as a teenager (but never healed from), a horrible break up and my son leaving home after me raising him for 15 years as a single mother. ALL of this happened at the same time. I was officially evicted from life as I knew it. I was no longer going to be someone’s wife, and I was no longer for the time being, someone’s mom.
When I became conscious of my own unworthiness, my insane need to please EVERYONE but myself, I woke up and realized how asleep at the wheel of life I really was. I could no longer ignore the guilt I felt from being stuck in the cycle of unworthiness and shame as it was showing up in all aspects of my life. So, I decided to face it head-on. I created and emerged myself in a process of personal transformation and spiritual growth where I explored different practices, sought mentors and coaches to heal myself once and for all. From the caterpillar to a beautiful butterfly. Yes, that did mean hanging out alone in my dark little chrysalis until I grew my wings and was able to free myself.
Today, I live every day from my heart. I choose love over fear. And I’ll tell you something, beautiful — I’m never going back!
If we haven’t met before, my name is Amanda. And I’m the no BS, truth-telling, I got your back bestie you always wished for. My mission is to help people create an epic, fulfilling life — one that you’re actually excited to live, and that genuinely makes you feel like the beautiful, powerful being you are. Because you know what? Keeping yourself in the feeling of unworthiness and not enough-ness isn’t serving anyone (least of all you). It all starts with self-love though, which means sweet one, it all starts with YOU!
This work is not for the unwilling, it’s hard to face yourself and what you’ve created and it’s likely why most people never do “the work” to heal properly. My writing started out as a way to heal myself but then it turned into so much more and is now a way to help other people who are on their own healing journey. I share my heart and use my own personal experience and vulnerably share to help others going through similar experiences. I walk alongside you like a best friend and share the exact steps I took to reinvent and empower myself from the inside out. I give you the tools to overcome fear, self-doubt, and unworthiness so you can live courageously and create the life you’ve always dreamed of. The way I have.
Through the process, I saw clear as day what it was doing to me, emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. My own unworthiness was blocking my purpose. My power. It was blocking my connection to my intuition. It was also blocking my capacity to attract what I wanted into my life. It was affecting my relationships, it was making me play small. It was keeping me stuck in a really low vibe. I’m an empath so it was doing a crazy number on me and I needed it to stop. I didn’t even realize how unworthy I felt until I started writing this course to be honest. And that’s the thing that I think, unfortunately ( insert my little laugh ) is going to happen for everybody when they read/take my course too is they’re going to go, “Uh-oh!” And it’s really not unfortunate at all because in order to heal those patterns we have to be willing look at them, because we repeat what we don’t repair.
When you sign up for Breakdown to Breakthrough, you are stepping into your own personal power and you’re signing up for a transformation unlike any other course on the market. Warning: Rapid soul transformation ahead!
Who It’s For: Anyone who is ready to finally surrender to the DO of life and the various roles they play and just BE. Be seen. Be heard. Be loved. Be transformed. Be aware. With awareness, we have a choice. With choice, we have possibility. With possibility, we can take responsibility. With responsibility, we have empowerment. And with empowerment, we have healing. This course is for anyone who is committed to serious change as it will challenge you to your core of who you “think” you are.
What To Expect: Over the next 8 weeks (or however long it takes you to complete the course, it’s not a race it’s a journey. So if it takes you longer, it takes your longer). I’m going to take you on a journey, a road trip if you will. We are going to travel places together. We are going to encounter some rough roads, maybe some bad weather and likely encounter a few unexpected detours. We might even break down. But know you must survive the breaking to live through the healing. This course will challenge you at times because meeting parts of yourself that you’ve been at war with, or ignored isn’t easy, to say the least. We will also laugh… A LOT, we will be inspired and you might even decide to shed some of your excess baggage along the way. Much like an airline who charges for each bag, we will explore what each suitcase or u-haul that you’re lugging is costing you. You might even decide to travel light and only take what you can carry. Um … something to think about on the journey ahead. I’ve deliberately spaced the modules out a week apart so you can marinate in it. Do the exercises, and really see what comes up for you. So depending on when you sign up, the next module will be available on your dashboard a week later. There’s a science to this, and to getting you to actually write things down in your journal. It anchors in the lessons and the experience.
Why I Created it: Because I believe we need to look at pain differently and be grateful for chaos. Chaos leads to change, and change – no matter how painful or unexpected – gives us the chance to review our love affair with life, forgive your mistakes and rewrite our story. The only person on earth you must answer to is yourself in the stillness because we repeat what we don’t repair. Hurt people hurt people… and healed people heal people. Hurt requires a healer, and the healer requires having been hurt. Therefore pain serves a very real purpose and should be alchemized as fuel for our rising not passed around like a hot potato. This course is my truth, I share my path to healing, and my healing might be very different from yours but it starts a conversation and gives you an opportunity to unzip your own soul and look around. Healing is hard AF and you will run into some rough waters, that’s inevitable, but suffering is optional. I talk about the power of a tribe and mentors and coaches to help you reach your destiny because the road is never meant to be travelled alone.
Who It’s Not For: Someone that isn’t committed to growth or transformation and isn’t tired of their own BS story yet. This is not for the unwilling.
Take this course and….
- You’ll learn all my secrets for personal growth and transformation.
- You’ll learn to become the person you were born to be.
- It will heal you on a level where you’ll catch your patterns and thoughts quickly and intuitively know how to handle them.
- You’ll enhance your quality of life with deep-dive exercises.
- It’s self-paced: So you can learn, repeat lessons anytime, anywhere with content available 24/7 on your own private dashboard.
- You’ll become part of incredible support system to keep you on track AND have access to the most supportive like-minded community you can imagine.
- You’ll have lifetime access to this private Facebook group, and the spiritual and emotional support is just heartwarming. I hop in regularly to chat and give guidance.
- This price also includes a 1-hour mentoring call with me. A life-line for you to use at any point during the journey.
What You’ll Need: You need to sign up ( below ) to have access to your personal dashboard, a journal and some quiet time to dive deep and reflect.
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What Others Have Said
By: Amanda OReilly
Best decision I ever made was signing up for Breakdown to Breakthrough. The course gave me the confidence to own my past and face my healing eye to eye. It also gave me permission to unpack and have conversations I've been too afraid to have. Since the course, I have gained more clients in my business because I am not afraid to show up as myself. In my truth. Whenever I get triggered or something comes up, I remember your words or I pop onto Instagram to see what you'd say. 🙂 This Digital Course has changed my life and my business. No words can really express how grateful I am!!!!!!
By: Amanda OReilly
I'm not quite sure I can ever quite thank you enough for creating this course. My biggest insight and take away was I can do anything once I decide and take action and that life on my terms is POSSIBLE! Your course and your words are like pure soul food. Your writing style felt like you were right there beside me. Your commitment to helping others find healing is unlike anything I've ever seen or experienced. You were also available to jump in and guide me gently back to my truth. When I push "add to cart" I really pushed a button inside myself that said YOU'RE enough and worthy and it's time to OWN that. Your courage to put yourself out there is admirable and honestly because you found your courage, you are changing lives including mine! Thank you! Anyone reading this who is on the fence, do yourself a favor and decide right now that you're enough and worthy of the healing that awaits you! xo
Personal one on one Coaching
By: Amanda OReilly
Amanda was amazing to work with. She pushed me but it was exactly what I needed to do the hard work. I’ve worked with many coaches throughout the years but Amanda’s technique is unconventional. The way she speaks and explains things is unique and it makes you think and comprehend in a different way. I highly recommend!! xo Candance
By: Amanda OReilly
Amanda has made all the difference for me. I started to follow her on Facebook a few months back and could not believe that she was so ‘like’ me? How could she actually have had so many of the same feeling as I’ve had or still do have and be so successful? Little did I know that once I started to ‘follow’ her I could not help myself but to go to her page and see what ‘gem’ she’d have up next. Each one was better than the last and she was speaking everything I’ve been feeling - All. My. Life. It just never dawned on me that someone like her, beautiful, successful and insightful could have ever had a ‘hard’ time in life. Who was this person she was continuously ‘eluding’ to? This broken, shattered but rebuilt person who has felt as much pain as I have, who has gone to the brink and come back – as I have, who was she? I just could not get enough of her posts and with each line I just knew she WAS ME! How could this be? How could anyone but ME have felt so much pain and heart break but turn it around to be so successful? Is it even possible? How did she do it? I just couldn’t understand? Is this what we should do with pain? Is this REALLY how it goes? Then I realized that yes, it’s really - how it goes…IF WE CHOOSE IT!! WOOOOOOOW … Should we actually allow others to see and know that we too struggle and hurt and think the scary, crazy thoughts? When I told her I’d just bought her course and couldn’t stop crying she told me – "that’s because you’ve just saved yourself, they are happy tears!" They won’t stop – I told her. She told me, "that won’t help you! Then I saw her words, decide, commit, stop the story! It’s - over, let it aaaalll go, it’s no longer serving you!" Just having her ‘with me’ even though it’s ‘cyber’ was such a comfort and truly floored me how ‘in- tune’ she was with me in that instant, she KNEW me, she WAS me and she was going to HELP me! I have never felt that level of understanding or comfort in my life! It’s brought about such deep changes in me (I’m still a work in progress) and now I know - we all are and it’s ok to trip and fall on our faces! It’s ok to ‘start over’ again, its OK to not be perfect! PHEW, what an effing relief!! I’m forever grateful to you – beauty, for cracking and helping those of us who have also cracked and now, through you - know it’s not easy, but, it is possible to put ourselves back together again with renewed vision, courage and strength. Your course and guidance has made ALL THE DIFFERENCE in my life and now I’m on a journey of Breakdown to Breakthrough with you as my guide and my sounding board. Not just your courses but your words and your presence in my life - even through this keyboard have been more ‘real’ than actual people standing right in front of me… Forever grateful for you. Love Shirley
By: Amanda OReilly
While it took me almost 6 months to complete, I can't say ENOUGH about how this course has changed my life. I am not the same woman that walked into this course. It challenges your "story" and empowers you to take back control! I never realized how deep my story went and how it was keeping me playing small in every aspect of life. I worked with Amanda one on one because I was having a tough time breaking through. She's amazingly compassionate and was the push that I needed. There was never any judgement but she's a BS detective and calls you out every damn time! ha ha super grateful. Thank you for giving me a second chance at life. xoxoxo
By: Amanda OReilly
Amanda's course "Breakdown to Breakthrough" is a game changer. If you even have slight willingness to change your patterns with self-love and self-worth, Amanda will give you grounded advice & practical tools to help you change your mind when it comes to these deeply ingrained patterns we’ve all picked up along the way. You don't need to know the "HOW" but you do need the willingness to start and Amanda will help guide you the rest of the way. Each session is better than the last, I cannot stress how much these tools have served me in my daily life. She packs each session with so many takeaways and HOLY F moments. Thank you for taking your heart and your lessons and putting them out there for us to not only relate too but feel empowered by.
Samantha – London
By: Amanda OReilly
Amanda has a special way of relating to people on a real level that makes everything easier to digest and understand. It doesn’t matter where you are on your journey. Through this course, you soon realize you are NOT alone, you are NOT unworthy and you feel empowered to take control of your life because your worthy of greatness. The course changed the way I think about life, relationships but most importantly, how I think about myself and my soul. It's a process of peeling back the layers, but if you're committed you won't regret the work required to as she says "unbecome" Big LOVE to you! thank you for keeping me another lease on life! xxx
Maureen – Texas
By: Amanda OReilly
Everyone wants a how-to guide. Someone to tell us what's next, or how to handle something more effectively. Amanda helps us realize this is because we are afraid to listen to what we already know to be true inside us. With this course you have a direct link to Amanda's own thoughts on how to best implement her suggestions in your life. This course made my unbecoming and becoming more realistic for me. It's tough work to undo all that's been done over the course of 57 years. But after completing this 14 week journey ( I got stuck in my story a few times ) I feel like a new person. Lighter. Happier and ready to write my story my way. Deepest gratitude for sharing your hard truth and getting naked so we can too. You are one brave beautiful woman. Forever grateful!
Juliette – Toronto
By: Amanda OReilly
I didn’t realize how much baggage I was carrying around and how much of it wasn't even mine to carry. I had such low levels of self-esteem and it was disempowering me and I was miserable and I didn't even know why. I was so used to it that it almost felt normal. But once you learn to unpack and build up your sense of self and you give yourself permission to be happy you wonder how it's possible to have felt so numb and so bad for so long. This is such a beautiful program Amanda has created. You feel like you're talking with your best friend and they're putting your life ( all of it ) into perspective. I had so many breakthroughs that the name is certainly fitting. You can feel the truth and the love she put into it. This isn’t a self-improvement course — it’s a life-changing transformational practice. Life will never be the same! Forever grateful I started following you on social media and it lead me here. ox
Melanie – Ottawa
By: Amanda OReilly
This course is such a compassionate, 'no BS' reflection of the courage and strength she has exuded throughout her own journey AND a representation of exactly what you will get out of it if you are truly ready to (actually) change your life and "change your story";This course will push you *so far out of your comfort zone* with its 'hard life lessons' and critical analysis of everything from your relationships to your career and "who you thought you HAD to be" within their constraints...Amanda will illuminates truths in your life that many of us have probably never even considered or been aware of (in ourselves); Through sincere, heartfelt words of experience and vulnerability you'll feel like you're growing *with her* as you tackle your own 'inner demons' and summon the courage to take-back control of your own life, shaping it like the masterpiece you knew you were always capable of Not only do I HIGHLY RECOMMEND you make the jump and try it out for yourself; I urge you to SHARE THIS OPPORTUNITY/ EXPERIENCE with *every single person* you love so everyone around you can experience *the magic* that comes with "giving yourself permission" to change the course (and quality) of the rest of your life SIDENOTE: As an author she's like Tony Robbins, Oprah and (your best friend) got together and decided to write a book that would change your life... Because of this course I've finally come to terms with some very painful parts of my past; her words "released me" from the cages I'd let other people build for me and finally gave me my "glow/sparkle" back —Now my mum and siblings are starting the course and it's opening up discussions that are freeing us all from the misnomers of the past and opening up new windows of self transformation for each of them (Thank you for making this course!)